Is the term 'mumpreneur' doing business women a disservice?

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As the word 'mumpreneur' enters the dictionary, Rebecca Jones discusses whether the term is having a negative impact on the perception of business women.

The eleventh edition of the Oxford English Dictionary was published on 6 October and the word 'mumpreneur' was listed for the first time. Now I'm a mum, all be it of older kids of 12 and 20, and for all but a few years of my adult life I have been a business owner. I often introduce myself as a business owner when at work, as a mum at children's events, socially just as Rebecca and sometimes as a wife or daughter of... Never have I felt the need to combine my job title and my life as a mum nor would I ever suggest I am an entrepreneur. Yet the word mumpreneur seems to be extremely popular with women who are business owners and mums. 

There seems an ever increasing number of books, websites and events for mumpreneurs and an ever expanding group of women who are keen to tell the world that they juggle being a mum with running a business. But are they new or are they just more willing to share their status with others?  My grandmother worked for herself taking in washing, my mum worked for herself designing wedding dresses and making soft toys and I work for myself as a business coach and author. Our work and our role as mums have always been two parts of our lives, although the experience of both make us who we are.
 
When my children were young they went to childcare or school while I worked in my business the same as the children of my friends who were employed. If I had to work when the kids were at home I tried to hide this fact from the business world, least I was seen as unable to manage and separate business from family life. Maybe this new generation of mums in business are willing to stand up and say they are combining running a business with being a mum. Over the years I have met doctors, dentists, hair dressers and all manner of professionals who are also mums but they don't combine their job role and being a mum into the name they give themselves; 'mumdentist' or 'mumvet' just doesn't sound right.
 
So I find myself asking "Is calling yourself a mumpreuneur going backwards"? In a time when women are still fighting for equality in the board room and the business world, is this new word for women who manage to juggle business ownership and being a mum doing themselves a disservice? I don't mind what people call themselves, after all that's their choice. But could it be affecting their business, how others perceive them and could the label they have adopted limit their potential future growth?
 
I'm just not sure if it's not short sighted to label yourself a mumpreneur. I've asked men and women in business what they think and the majority worry that it implies they are a mum first and business comes second. That if you're their client and you need something doing, the children would always come first.  Also, if as the definition says, a mumpreneur is a woman who combines running a business with being a mum does that not conjure up the vision that your accountant is balancing a baby on her knee while she balances your books. I'm sure the actual reality is that once the kids are in someone else's care these mums change to business owner and concentrates on you, her client as you would wish. So then is this label hindering their business appeal for those who worry their role as a mum will interfere with their abilities as a business woman.
 
I am keen to stress that it is each person's choice what name they give themselves. I just wonder from a branding and business appeal basis if the label mumpreneur is not doing these women a disservice. But as business owners, please position yourself as an expert, place the emphasis on you and your business offerings. You deserve that title of business owner outright and the fact that you are juggling parenthood behind the scenes just makes you even more amazing and no doubt determined to be the success you deserve to be.
 
Rebecca Jones is a business coach, author and professional speaker. For more information, click here.
 

UPDATE:

Entrepreneurs have commented at the bottom of this article with their reaction to this issue. To view the comments, register and log in. Here's one comment in favour of the term 'mumpreneur' written by Suzanne Dibble, founder of Lawyers 4 Mumpreneurs.

"A very interesting article Rebecca. What does being a mumpreneur mean? The dictionary definition was “a mother who combines bringing up children with running a company”. To me, it is more than that – it means you are fitting your business around your children, working from home without childcare. The doctors, dentists and hairdressers that Rebecca mentions presumably don’t have their offspring running around them whilst they are seeing patients or cutting hair. Mums who have childcare and go off to work outside of the home are not, in my view, mumpreneurs – they are indeed simply business women who have children. They don’t have the same needs and requirements as the mums who are literally fitting their work into naptimes, evening and weekends or whilst the children are playing in the kitchen as they work.

"The ‘real’ mumpreneurs are a distinct business group with their own set of needs and requirements. And as a response to this, a fantastic community and support group has evolved. Mumpreneur networking groups (such as Mums The Boss) hold events at times avoiding the school run and in venues that offer childcare facilities. New work spaces (such as Third Door) are springing up to provide flexible working facilities with on-site childcare. Mumpreneur conferences (such as the Mumpreneur Conference) are being held to provide advice and support tailored to mumpreneurs.

"From a lawyer’s perspective, mumpreneurs have their own requirements and needs in the provision of legal services. For example, mumpreneurs find it easier and less intimidating to deal with a lawyer like me who won’t mind if there is a crying baby in the background rather than deal with a middle aged man in a pinstriped suit in a city office who might not have quite the same empathy if little Harry starts screaming again… Mumpreneurs need to work flexibly around the demands of their children, so they like the fact that I am happy to schedule calls in the evening and at the weekend. Perhaps most importantly, mumpreneur businesses are in the main, small, self funded businesses and mumpreneurs need affordable legal advice with certainty as to the legal fee. I keep my fees affordable and offer fixed fees wherever I can, something that not many lawyers are prepared to do. Finally, because I work almost exclusively with mumpreneur businesses, which do tend to be of a similar nature, I am already very familiar with the legal issues and know exactly what is important to a mumpreneur and what is not.

"Female entrepreneurs who don't like the term (and these are typically the mums who I would refer to as business women who have childcare and work outside of the home and therefore not in my opinion ‘real‘ mumpreneurs) don’t see why they should be labelled as a subsection of business and think that the term is demeaning to them, making their business seem more ‘hobby like’ and less professional. That might be a perception, but a lot of my mumpreneur clients are building fantastic businesses that any entrepreneur would be proud of. And for many mumpreneurs, success is not about building up their business to a million pound turnover. It is about being successfully balancing spending time with their children whilst still having something for them and keeping them intellectually stimulated and if that means that their business is kept to a small scale and ‘hobby-like’, so be it.

"But I think the most important point to make here is that the mumpreneurs I work with don’t refer to themselves as mumpreneurs in their everyday dealings – it is just a useful term when looking for networking groups, conferences etc. They don't introduce themselves and say "hi, I'm a mumpreneur!".  I use the word ‘mumpreneur’ in my business name because it attracts the people who I want to help - as a mum who has set up her own business to work around children, I know how hard it is. But other than when I am working with mumpreneurs (where a bit of empathy is beneficial to the working relationship) I don’t advertise the fact that I am working around my baby and I still offer my clients the same top quality service that I did when I was working at global law firm DLA Piper. I’m similarly sure that a mumpreneur going to pitch at John Lewis wouldn’t introduce themselves as a mumpreneur or advertise the fact that they work around their children.

"And as to whether mumpreneurs take their businesses seriously, well I guess my business wouldn’t be successful if they didn’t (and it is!) as a willingness to spend money on legal fees to ensure that things are done properly is always a good indication as to how seriously people take their businesses…"

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